tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2042823968101983560.post6941617679905108517..comments2024-03-05T09:10:31.164+00:00Comments on Coulda Shoulda Woulda: Why you love who you love - apparently...( take two! )Coulda shoulda wouldahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12507021618497645667noreply@blogger.comBlogger32125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2042823968101983560.post-33928968703329809952014-07-21T17:24:52.294+01:002014-07-21T17:24:52.294+01:00Ha
Now I get it! Mrs. GF often considers me a pig...Ha<br />Now I get it! Mrs. GF often considers me a pig, and definitely tells me so, though I console myself that her sentiment developed over time…<br />thegentlemanfarmerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07673352410400405604noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2042823968101983560.post-21198858853311418592014-07-21T06:47:17.029+01:002014-07-21T06:47:17.029+01:00Ha! Get your pics ready ;)Ha! Get your pics ready ;)Coulda shoulda wouldahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12507021618497645667noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2042823968101983560.post-44878521661650016402014-07-21T06:46:34.828+01:002014-07-21T06:46:34.828+01:00You me make me laugh!! Oh you truly are by name an...You me make me laugh!! Oh you truly are by name and by nature the gentle farmer... Perhaps I am too medieval and urban but I have seen some marriages out of sheer attraction but they don't tend to last and divorce once things fizzle in the bedroom. I waited several years to make sure my husband was suitable as I wasn't gagging to get married so why do it unless I was sure. But I have seen many unions based on security and status. I think a fridge might be a carrot in some countries I kid you not!! The prima copy list theory is kind of like when ducklings mistake a pig or dog as their mother. It's a war fuzzy feeling that one doesn't get with a great pair of boobs or legs. It's something that isn't easily achievable hence Camillas hold and everlasting allure for the prince!Coulda shoulda wouldahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12507021618497645667noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2042823968101983560.post-80903130573346827562014-07-21T01:41:41.237+01:002014-07-21T01:41:41.237+01:00Thank you for this. Something else to talk to my t...Thank you for this. Something else to talk to my therapist about. :-)Burnitahttp://www.burzonline.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2042823968101983560.post-19514375506654066232014-07-21T01:25:54.983+01:002014-07-21T01:25:54.983+01:00Dear, Dear Naomi
Of course, your husband went with...Dear, Dear Naomi<br />Of course, your husband went with you because you’re you! Screw the whole gene pool theory! So are you saying that marriage and attraction are two different things? Good Lord, does that mean we might marry when we are not attracted to someone, like maybe for money, or power, or a new refrigerator. If that is the case, can someone please explain (excuse the pun) the ins and outs of the old prima copulist? I am so confused…thegentlemanfarmerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07673352410400405604noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2042823968101983560.post-29451792497864887022014-07-20T20:33:31.635+01:002014-07-20T20:33:31.635+01:00@Mary - there is a strong theory but no reason why...@Mary - there is a strong theory but no reason why people morph but I have seen it too!<br /><br />@KIM - this is a real hoot - the pictures tell a thousand words no?<br /><br />@silkannthreades - you must be a real cutie pie then! hehe<br /><br />@two birds - i hope you find something!<br /><br />@TGFarmer - I think the opposites attract theory is about diversifying the gene pool no? My husband is from an island and I think he only went with me because he wanted a difference or something. But of course there are so many other reasons for marriage other than attraction which are two different things. I think gut instinct and our primal brain kicks in somehow.Coulda shoulda wouldahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12507021618497645667noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2042823968101983560.post-91690459327607904022014-07-20T15:10:51.942+01:002014-07-20T15:10:51.942+01:00Mrs. CSW
How does the whole “opposites attract” th...Mrs. CSW<br />How does the whole “opposites attract” thing work into why you love who you love? This is a question that is very important and very personal to me. I hope that that doesn’t make me sound too much the narcissist, which would lead to theory three, but that can’t be because of the “opposites attract”. Oh, the endless circle, the endless humanity of it all!thegentlemanfarmerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07673352410400405604noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2042823968101983560.post-79574113586085091782014-07-19T18:19:33.389+01:002014-07-19T18:19:33.389+01:00Ha! that is food for thought, actually I used to m...Ha! that is food for thought, actually I used to more go for redheads (spookily now I think of it, which is like my family, we have a lot of red hair, so the Kevstar is still an aberation). He is opposite also to CarlyBoy who was my first love next door, though he was a year younger and I cast him off when I went off to primary school. He seemed to recover within a day or soAbout Last Weekendhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04716571630418078937noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2042823968101983560.post-12899347121972220412014-07-18T20:44:17.160+01:002014-07-18T20:44:17.160+01:00Very amusing indeed! I will have to try a side-by-...Very amusing indeed! I will have to try a side-by-side with my husband!two birdshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13937900417249072979noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2042823968101983560.post-19231319465413809162014-07-18T11:10:29.595+01:002014-07-18T11:10:29.595+01:00Intriguing, but I look more like my dog than my hu...Intriguing, but I look more like my dog than my husband. :(Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2042823968101983560.post-58873616856615534772014-07-17T22:29:07.516+01:002014-07-17T22:29:07.516+01:00This book is a hoot. Wow, isn't it interesting...This book is a hoot. Wow, isn't it interesting how closely some resemble their mate? I'm going to take a better look at the hubs. Hope you had a restful getaway at the clinic. xx Kimkim at northerncalstyle.https://www.blogger.com/profile/12710545630442890027noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2042823968101983560.post-69038833429125637932014-07-16T00:50:41.814+01:002014-07-16T00:50:41.814+01:00What fun! We've been married 41 years so likel...What fun! We've been married 41 years so likely have morphed to be identical!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01649567646783537650noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2042823968101983560.post-46559611880842853492014-07-15T22:55:31.983+01:002014-07-15T22:55:31.983+01:00that is an age old question but I think it has bee...that is an age old question but I think it has been tilting heavily towards nature for quite some time but in the case of marriage one isn't always allowed 1st preference and must settle for what's availableGSLhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04903412564467078538noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2042823968101983560.post-25915228400055583322014-07-15T21:48:01.323+01:002014-07-15T21:48:01.323+01:00@cc so you and prince Charles have things in commo...@cc so you and prince Charles have things in common! Lol<br /><br />Lecomptoir I think they are interesting and they should continue their studies<br /><br />@ Jody you may be opposite but perhaps you have harmonious features or he looks like the older version of your preschool crush? ;)Coulda shoulda wouldahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12507021618497645667noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2042823968101983560.post-21749245284768523572014-07-15T21:46:19.344+01:002014-07-15T21:46:19.344+01:00@gsl this brings us back to another age old questi...@gsl this brings us back to another age old question tho. Is it nature or nurture and why does one choose echoism over primo compulsion? I am still getting all my exes photos out!! HeheCoulda shoulda wouldahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12507021618497645667noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2042823968101983560.post-19294046530983169562014-07-15T21:44:52.545+01:002014-07-15T21:44:52.545+01:00@sjv it is funny but sometimes I believe things ar...@sjv it is funny but sometimes I believe things are really simple but perhaps that supposed feeling is just familiarity and dejavuCoulda shoulda wouldahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12507021618497645667noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2042823968101983560.post-69443195344306825862014-07-15T21:23:19.905+01:002014-07-15T21:23:19.905+01:00Wow! spooky possums - love this post, its the most...Wow! spooky possums - love this post, its the most original thing I've read in ages!!! the Charles nanny similarity is eery. I look the opposite of my husband, not sure if that is good or badAbout Last Weekendhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04716571630418078937noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2042823968101983560.post-22808629858894515062014-07-15T21:12:55.504+01:002014-07-15T21:12:55.504+01:00I did enjoy this post... Interesting theories ;-)I did enjoy this post... Interesting theories ;-)LecomptoirdeStephanie (FunkySteph)http://www.lecomptoirdestephanie.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2042823968101983560.post-78416763224560830422014-07-15T19:45:01.662+01:002014-07-15T19:45:01.662+01:00I did find this amusing and thought-provoking as I...I did find this amusing and thought-provoking as I started to think about some of my past boyfriends. I don't know whether I should say this publicly, and I'm sure I've read this somewhere as well, but my boyfriends have mostly seemed to model my dad eeeek! xxAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16533644247275257358noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2042823968101983560.post-35281874768300707662014-07-15T18:19:22.534+01:002014-07-15T18:19:22.534+01:00Also, I feel those are genetically induced impulse...Also, I feel those are genetically induced impulses and not external environment induced. I don't necessarily think those genetic impulses are determinant but do cause inclinations.GSLhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04903412564467078538noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2042823968101983560.post-48991473775430201202014-07-15T18:00:31.552+01:002014-07-15T18:00:31.552+01:00Very funny! and interesting. There is definitely ...Very funny! and interesting. There is definitely something to it. I've always found a romantic (but not sexual) attraction to women who resemble my mother when she was young. GSLhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04903412564467078538noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2042823968101983560.post-26226691979615095012014-07-15T16:48:37.655+01:002014-07-15T16:48:37.655+01:00Hilarious stuff N.
Clinton+mummyClinton/Lewinsky, ...Hilarious stuff N.<br />Clinton+mummyClinton/Lewinsky, just nasty!<br /><br />I especially liked the photo of Charlie boy and his nanny...he looks like Desperate Dan with that chin.Si je veuxhttp://si.jenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2042823968101983560.post-22528778601249375652014-07-15T14:52:48.917+01:002014-07-15T14:52:48.917+01:00@BB - maybe hubs looks like your kindergarten crus...@BB - maybe hubs looks like your kindergarten crush? <br /><br />@cilosophy - doesn't he just??<br /><br />@Wendy - yep you are prima copulist! hehe<br /><br />@Pigtown design - there needs to be an app for this theory!Coulda shoulda wouldahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12507021618497645667noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2042823968101983560.post-33574454529628022462014-07-15T14:32:03.749+01:002014-07-15T14:32:03.749+01:00This is creepy and fascinating at the same time!This is creepy and fascinating at the same time!Pigtown*Designhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13775512940294150252noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2042823968101983560.post-39380597563661645062014-07-15T11:57:23.351+01:002014-07-15T11:57:23.351+01:00Hmmm..... barry and I both have curly hair (and n...Hmmm..... barry and I both have curly hair (and now double chin!) but not a lot of facial symmetry. But I absolutely cop to the fact that when I met him he reminded me of my mother's best friend's son, who I had a huge crush on when I was little!WendyMcLeodMacKnighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04830981147524921562noreply@blogger.com